Go on then.

It is difficult to understand why so many women emasculate their men. Surely it is as simple choosing a man you respect and then respecting him. Then you’re genuinely surprised when he cheats on you with someone who makes him feel like a man. Now I’m not man, hopefully that’s obvious, but I assume men want to be respected, needed and appreciated. So if you don’t respect him, need him or appreciate him why are you wasting his time and your own? Why are you setting yourself up for hurt?

Depending on where you are in life and what you’re looking for, you’ll be “looking’ for someone who is where you are. Why do woman date guys who are nowhere near marriage and then expect them to want to marry you one year down the line, he’s PROBABLY still not going to be ready for marriage.

If you want children why would you choose someone who you don’t respect and will most probably not value his opinions on how to raise your children? How exactly do you expect that to work out?

Then there are the unrealistic expectations, and this is the one that really baffles me. You want a gorgeous chiseled man and you don’t know why he has not arrived on his white horse to sweep you off your feet and wine and dine you. Ladies have you not noticed how swallow men, how swallow they’ve always been…why would that have changed now? You want to know where he is…he’s in the gym with the gorgeous chiseled ladies.

You want something; do what you have to do to get it. You want to get married, start dating men who want to get married, and you want a “real man” then stop dating boys. You want a Ken then start looking like Barbie. But for all that is good and holy in this world please stop giving men a reason to treat women like they are idiots and TAKE CONTROL. Weak and pathetic has never been a good look and right now most women are just that.

Also get your hands on Steve Harvey’s “Straight talk, no chaser”. It is fantastic, honest and super helpful :)